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and i said to my body. softly. ‘i want to be your friend.’ it took a long breath. and replied, ‘i have been waiting my whole life for this.’
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branddy asked me really, REALLY nicely to draw her.

This is adorable!

Reclaiming the word fat was the most empowering step in my progress. I stopped using it for insult or degradation and instead replaced it with truth, because the truth is that I am fat, and that’s ok. So now when someone calls me fat, I agree, whereas before I would get embarrassed and emotional.
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I’m done, anon. Anything I say isn’t going to change your mind, and you aren’t going to change mine. Live your life the way you want, and I will live mine. 

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I'm so tickled that you think I wouldn't say it to your face because nothing would bring me more pleasure and disgust by saying these things to your fat face. Secondly I like how whenever someone says anything about your weight your defense is to say that I must be sad. How can you be sure? Maybe this is how I get my kicks but I'm a happy person? That would make me a little sick but I'm alright with that. I'm just trying to save the world from you exposing what you think is beauty to it. #poop
from Anonymous

Obviously you won’t, because you can’t even have the decency to come off of anonymous. That must mean you’re scared of something. If you don’t like my face, don’t fucking look at it. Don’t follow me, don’t check my blog. It’s really easy, actually. And it is sad. You may be sick in the head if you get your kicks this way, but it’s very, very sad that thats what you do. Like you said, it’s MY weight. Don’t worry about it. A lot of people love me and my body. A lot of people think I’m beautiful, sexy, gorgeous, etc. I’m just trying to live my life just like you are. We’re all trying to make it through the day somehow, and it took me a long time to feel good about who I am. 

The world doesn’t need to be saved from me. I’m kind, honest, caring, intelligent, beautiful, funny, and a whole lot of other great things that I have to offer the world. I’m sorry that you don’t appreciate the person I am, but I do. I love myself, and there is honestly nothing that you can say to me that will make me think otherwise. You are of no importance to me. So your sorry attempt to “save the world” from something it doesn’t actually need saving from was absolutely pointless. 

Behind your "confidence" (lies to yourself) and "cuteness" (grossness) is a fat girl with all the self loathing and delusions included in your fat rolls. #fitgirlsrule #fatgirlsdrool
from Anonymous

Aww. Well, obviously since don’t have the security in yourself to say this off of anon, I’m just going to assume you are a sad person trying to make others feel bad about themselves. 

However, I told myself a long time ago that I wouldn’t let the mean people like you in the world make me feel bad about myself when you don’t even know me. I know FOR A FACT that you would not say this to my face if we were standing in front of each other. Try to turn your sad little life around, and be happy when others find happiness in themselves. Realize that you are a speck of dust on my radar, and that everything you say is irrelevant

Like Beyoncé said, 

"I wake up looking this good,
And I wouldn’t change it if I could.
(If I could, if I, if I, could)
And you can say what you want
I’m the shit. (what you want I’m the shit)
I’m the shit, I’m the shit, I’m the shit
I want everyone to feel like this, tonight
God damn, God damn, God damn”

Have a good day, maggot. 

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